The husband tells me that I have a Teflon shield of hope and optimism. He says that this is both my greatest strength and my Achilles' heel. "You're too optimistic," he advises, "you need to be more realistic." What does that mean, being "realistic"? I've been thinking about that a lot. In many ways, it seems to me to be another word for limiting beliefs. Or a way to make sure you hold your hopes in check to avoid disappointment. To remain caged, as it ... Read more
Happy Friday + Randomness
Happy Friday! A couple of days ago, I attended an event called "Young Author's Day" at K's school. It's a big deal -- the entire school participates and all the students are shuffled into groups of about 10 kids from various grades. Each student takes a turn reading a story he/she had written, and my favorite part is listening to the "About the Author" section. They all invariably include information about their family, a hobby and a totally random factoid like how they like to eat cereal for ... Read more
Giveaway: She Wears the Pants [CLOSED]
A long time ago, when this blog was just a gleam in my eye, I had coffee with a writer friend who was an expert in the blogging world (at least more of an expert than I was or am). I confided in her that I used to maintain a blog that had petered out, but I loved it and wanted to maybe-sort-of-kind-of begin another one. I bounced around some ideas with her ("Sewing? That sounds like too much work," she declared). After much hemming and hawing, I was no closer to figuring out what sort of blog ... Read more
Happy Friday + Randomness
Happy Friday! I'm rapidly approaching the finish line for book #2 on the heels of launching book #1, and I have to confess, I haven't been exhausted like this in a very, very long time. Luckily, I'm surrounded by energizing forces like the gorgeous blooms above, and I get emails with "poems for book?" in the subject line from my sweet girl: Mama, Choose between these. sewing, the loud rumble rumble it makes that is very distracting ... Read more
Little Kunoichi Launch Party Recap
Whoo-boy! I'm still recovering from the excitement of Mother's Day/Launch party festivities but thought it might be fun to show you some photos from the event (well, that first photo up there was styled in my house post-event because in the flurry of all that was going on, most of my pix were blurry). Look at all those copies of Little K! We had almost 100 people at the party (though not all at once), and the credit for the success of the launch really goes to my editor and dear friend, ... Read more